First of all,relabel.Meaning: identify your problems. E.g.: “Every time I’m stuck at something, I take the shortcut to stress-relief by smoking a cigar.” Then,reframe.Put this thought in the right folder. E.g.: “Smoking doesn’t help me get my work done faster. It actually d...
Even if one is set on regarding translation as subtraction (a tally of what is lost or needlessly added), in decadent poetry you can lose almost all of the valences and still have more than enough meaning. But what I think is her most moving passage is, Maybe one does not have the ...